From a chat workshop hosted by Mystress Angelique Serpent, Shaman, Shaktipat Master, Pagan High Priestess (3rd Degree), Yogina, clairvoyant, channeller, Reiki Master ... and Dominatrix:
[Mystress] enters this room
[scott] enters this room
[MrDill] enters this room
[Mystress] heya.. welcome.. !
[Mystress] ok. First, find your soul... look within yourself for a tiny bright spark of light. It is likely near your power chakra.
[Mystress] find the spark of your soul inside you, let me know
when you see it or if you cannot..
[Mystress] find it, Scott?
[scott] i can't pinpoint it.. but i can imagine it
[scott] it looks dark
[MrDill] I'm trying
[Mystress] I think you may find it is outside your body, near your head, scott
[scott] wow
[Mystress] explains a lot, really... see it?